Showing posts with label Self-care. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-care. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 9, 2024

The Natural World: Not Black and White

"Blue" can be more than a subdued or sad mood.
Noticing the blues of water, skies and, yes, hydrangeas can bring calm to the mind and relaxation to the body. The research tying time spent in nature to improved mental health is robust.
Take a walk, a stroll, a run or a hike. Have a picnic or a play date. Yes, please take good care. 
(Associations between Nature Exposure and Health: A Review of Evidence, (May, 2021) M. P. Jimenez, et al., Int. J. of Environ Res Public Health; Vol. 18, Issue 9, 4790)





Wednesday, March 30, 2022

Making a difference in Year Two with You.

Life is dynamic, not static. 

Change is happening whether we wish for it or not. If two years of these extraordinary times have taught us anything it is that we can be resilient and can adapt to change, even when it's dramatic. 

I hope we can all take that resourcefulness and use it to make a difference in our self-care. The action towards self-care can be small, but see if you can chose one that you can keep up with.  

Journal a few sentences in the morning. Do a one minute meditation/breathing cycle. Take a walk around the block. Put down your phone for the first three bites of your meal and just focus on the taste of your food and the way your body feels as you eat. At the end of the day think of three things that you are grateful to have experienced. Make your bed a place for sleep and affection but nothing else.

If you start with one goal and it doesn't feel "good enough" after a week, try another.

The point is to take a small incremental action that you can integrate easily into your day (or night.)

Here's a start:  When in doubt---breathe in, breathe out.

Take good care.


Image credit: ABEUTY

Monday, September 20, 2021

"The Great Outdoors": It's a Fact

 To feel in the pink, think green (or ocean blue or woodland brown).

The multiple physical and mental health benefits of a "nature connection" are well-documented in numerous public health research studies. Here's one that was touted in journal, Scientific Reports. The title says it all:

"Spending at least 120 minutes a week in nature is associated with good health and wellbeing"

(Mathew P. White, et al., Scientific Reports, June 13, 2019; v. 9; art. 7730)

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-019-44097-3

The results apply to all age groups and the process requires very little other than some access to a few trees or shrubs, an  expanse of grass or garden, a path near a lake or pond.  120 minutes of outdoor time each week is ideal, but, please don't be intimidated if that seems out of reachJust like any other change that you want to fit into your lifestyle, you can start low and go slow to get to your goal. 

Plus, you don't have to go it alone. Instead of meeting friends at a restaurant or bar, invite them to  a stroll in the park or even packing a lunch or takeout for a park bench mini-picnic to get your minutes in. Just two hours a week, by yourself or with a friend, child or family member. 

After 18 months, pandemic fatigue is setting in for many of us.

As we change seasons, we can change our ways of taking good care of ourselves.

Until next time, wishing you good health, a good autumn and a good time with Mother Nature.



Tuesday, October 25, 2016

Selfie-Care 101


A car doesn't run without gas.  (OK---in 21st century-speak a car doesn't run without its ion- battery fully charged).
This fact is often ignored when it comes to the self.  
Often I get to work with folks who are not taking care of themselves in
the most basic ways.
"I didn't eat yet today (and our appointment is 1 PM!).
"Tired? Yeah. I've had no chance to sleep for two days."
"I have no food in the house....too busy to shop."
"I haven't had a chance to do laundry in 3 weeks."
"Vacation?  Who has time for vacation?"
"I worked until midnight. Then I got up at 6 this morning."
"I need to go to the doctor, but I can't get time off and this project is due."
"I live on caffeine. Too hectic to grab lunch."

When I meet individuals or couples for the first appointment, I ask and listen for how they make sure their basic needs are met.
Inadequate self-care is an important contributor to anxiety, depression, obsession, anger, motivation issues, and relationship conflicts.

Here's a test:
Take two minutes to check out this well done Self-Care Activity page
put together by the Social Work department at the University of Buffalo.
It covers eating, physical activity, mindfulness work, time-management techniques and assertiveness exercises just to name a few.
Next test:
Try just one of the techniques for a week (i.e.meditate for a minute, pack your lunch for 2 days, take a warm bath or shower before bedtime once a week, schedule that mammogram, go for a walk with a friend, make a moment for gratitude in the morning).
It will probably feel novel, maybe even indulgent.  
But, given our recent interest in Selfie shots, Selfie sticks, Selfie mics....
Why not a little Selfie-Care?